Customer service tips (and a free template!) for handling angry customers
May 3, 2023
For U.S. business leaders, get your party hats on â itâs National Small Business Week! Hereâs to all the SMBs driving the economy and supporting local communities. Interested in free resources? Itâs not too late to join in the National Small Business Week Virtual Summit (peep the link here).
Hot off the SMB press this week:
- A process template for dealing with customer escalations.
- Plus, customer service tips for helping the angry, the frustrated, and the dissatisfied.
- How to avoid the common traps that make it difficult to learn from failure.
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Template of the week: Customer Escalations Process

As a small business leader, you know that delivering quality products and services is of paramount importance to staying competitive. But, mistakes happen, and problems can arise â especially when youâre trying new strategies, developing your products, and adding to your services in an effort to scale. Enter the raging customer â ready to throw hands at your precious, hard-working customer service team.
Truth be told, handling customer escalations is easier said than done. But the good news is itâs not so bad when you have a repeatable process for customer communication and problem-solving. Ensuring that every customer gets the exact same options and solutions with a smiling face.
đ Snag the Customer Escalations Process template that tells your team everything they need to know about preventing those dreaded customer meltdowns and de-escalating situations where need be. All it needs is your personal touch and itâs ready to share with your team.
âCanât wait a whole week for your next template? Check out our entire template archive of free, multimedia-enhanced, and customizable policy, process, and role starters.
HELL HATH NO FURY
Top tips for helping angry, frustrated customers

If you snagged our Customer Escalations template, itâs likely youâve dealt with an angry customer or two.
Sometimes, itâs our fault; sometimes, itâs not. Whatever the reason, as business leaders, we know the importance of putting in the extra effort to make these customers happy â mostly because customer satisfaction is one of the most important drivers of business success.
Makes sense: Happy customers will typically become repeat ones, and consumers who are particularly pleased will sing your praises to the masses. Frustrated and angry customers will have the opposite effect (weâve all seen those Yelp reviews).
And it doesnât help that thereâs been a recent uptick in dissatisfaction amongst consumers.
According to the National Customer Rage Survey, 74% of American consumers reported having issues with a companyâs product or service in 2022, up from 66% in 2020. And businesses are dealing with a rising wave of frustration and anger from customers â 43% of whom reported raising their voices when making complaints to companies.
Meaning, youâll need a strong team of customer service representatives (CSRs) to appease customers while delivering solutions. Plus, a well-trained team can even save you money â bad customer service is costing U.S. companies an estimated $494B.
So, how can your CSRs keep customers satisfied?
We asked that very question of Trainualâs own customer experience team â who can boast a Customer Satisfaction Score (CSAT) of 97.5 (out of 100!) â and hereâs what they had to say:
- Speak with confidence. When a customer comes to your CSR with a question, they donât want to hear any hemming or hawing about potential solutions. They need a fix, and your CSRs need to prove that theyâre the right person to come to for a solution.
- Be real. Customer service is still a human-to-human interaction â but when customers have to speak with a person who doesnât seem to care about their issues, itâs straight-up demoralizing. Treating customers like people (as opposed to a check off the to-do list) goes a long way to fostering a productive conversation.
đ Find more tips â including the one quality every CSR needs.
ITâS A TRAP!
How to learn the right lessons from failure
Pop quiz! Do you remember what we talked about last week? (Hint: You became a novice psychic of sorts.)
UmmâĻ I already forgot what I had for breakfast this morningâĻ
Allow us to refresh your memory! We talked about premortem analyses â AKA, asking and answering âWhat could go wrong?â before implementing your business strategies. And what ten steps will make your strategy stronger and help you avoid planning biases.
But letâs talk about the tough pill to swallow: failure â and no matter how much you prepare, sometimes it happens. So, the ability to learn from failure is essential for your future success â no matter what stage your business is in.
When we analyze our failures, we have to strive towards enabling real improvement â which simply canât be done when we just fixate on mistakes. Thatâs why weâve got to be careful to not fall into these three common traps:
Trap 1: We donât notice when seemingly good outcomes are driven by bad processes.
Letâs just say some of your employees are performing well below their peers. So, you decide to analyze what theyâre doing and how it might be resulting in failures. Not a bad start, sure, but it certainly shouldnât be the end of your investigation.
If youâre only analyzing your low performers, itâll be difficult to understand whatâs really driving success. For that, youâll have to look to your high performers and the processes theyâre using.
The most important piece here: Take a look at what processes your low and high performers are using. If you see any trends or overlaps, itâs a good sign your team needs to establish a set of best practices. When you can control how your team carries out important processes (adjusting over time as needed), youâre able to reinforce more successful outcomes.
đ Peep the other two traps.
TL; DR
This week's highlight reel
- âHaving fun isnât hardâĻâ when your whole team can request access to the company knowledge, processes, and policies that matter to them most â using Trainualâs all-new content library. Now, every employee can see âCompany,â âPolicies,â and âProcessâ pages on the left menu and explore the extra training you have to offer (no matter what permissions they have). Publish content libraries in your account today in Advanced settings! New to Trainual? Try for free.
- Bed Bath & Beyondâs trash is somebody elseâs treasure â notably, their competition. While the bankrupt company will no longer accept their own iconic blue-and-white coupons, The Container Store and Big Lots are both offering discounts to customers who bring in their expired coupons. BRB, have to go dig our BB&B coupons out of the garbage.
- Target not acquired. If you advertise with Meta, chances are youâve seen their recent changes to their location targeting â AKA, their removal of location options. The change wonât affect most, but there could be repercussions for businesses like home services and tourism advertisements that rely on specific location requirements. Fingers crossed that the mysterious algorithm comes through.
- And the Grammy goes toâĻ Drake and The Weeknd, AI-edition. The viral track âHeart on My Sleeveâ was developed using the AI versions of the artistsâ voices, proving yet again the seemingly limitless potential of AI technology. Itâs since been removed from streaming services, but weâre still making it the song of the summer, right?